Make Someone Stop Ignoring You (Law of Attraction) THIS WORKS!

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In this post, I'm going to talk about how to make someone stop ignoring you. Anyone who's been there knows that being ignored by someone—being ignored by a specific person—is really painful, especially if you have a wound from your past that I like to call fear of abandonment. Many people probably already know what that is, and I'll talk a little bit more about it in this post. But for those of us who have felt abandoned before, the experience of being ignored by someone can be just incredibly painful.

Before I jump in, please make sure you're subscribed to my channel below. Also, know that I offer lots of self-study courses. There is a course called "Free Yourself" down there, and this course goes also into how to heal your fear of abandonment. So if you resonate with having this type of wound, you might want to check out that course.

So let's jump in. What do you do if you're being ignored by someone? How do you stop this experience? How do you make this person stop ignoring you? All of these things. I want to dive into this whole realm of being ignored in this post.

So the place I want to start is—well, the real place I want to start, where I start with every post, essentially, is that we're creating our realities from the inside out, and this includes how other people show up with us. So if you are in a reality where you are being ignored by someone, first of all, like I said, it's incredibly painful, and I don't want to minimize that. And something that is really empowering for us to understand, and to start to turn this pattern around so we don't have to feel ignored anymore, it's important for us to understand that we have created this experience of being ignored. Sometimes that's a tough pill to swallow, and sometimes it's really empowering—it can be both—but you, through your own beliefs and assumptions and expectations in relationships, have somehow created this reality of being ignored. So that means there's something inside of you, up until this point, that has on some level expected to be ignored.

Now, sometimes it's really easy for us to figure out where this comes from. Sometimes it's not so easy. But often, where an expectation to be ignored, or to be left, or to be abandoned, or to be rejected—all of these things—any wound where these expectations often come from is our past. And usually, it comes from way, way, way back in your past, in your childhood. So what happens is typically we are exposed to behavior as kids that creates little wounds inside of us. And this is very common. Typically, those wounds happen with our parents, but they can also happen with other significant people in our lives. And so, if something happened to you in your childhood, or even an ongoing experience happened in your childhood, it does—sometimes we don't—I'm a psychologist, I understand, like, I've really studied how our past influences us. I want you to trust me when I say, you know, through my perspective, you don't actually have to go back and find out where the wound happened. You can if you want. My course "Free Yourself" teaches you an easy way to do that. However, you don't have to do that to heal the wound.

All you have to know is somehow, somewhere along the way, you developed some sort of expectation to be ignored, and that is why this experience now is occurring in your reality, where someone is ignoring you, where someone has left, where someone has abandoned you, where they've gone away. We create that from an inner expectation within.

Now, what do you do to recreate a new reality where you're no longer going to be ignored by this person? There are really two steps that I want to go into in this post. There's probably more than two steps, but in this post, I want to break it down into two steps.

First of all, if you want to create a new reality where someone's not ignoring you, the main thing you have to do is you need to change your inner expectation around what's going to happen to you. And we can even call this changing your self-concept, changing who you are, changing how you treat yourself, changing what you expect to be treated by other people—all of this is changing your inner reality. And the main thing for us to do to stop being ignored by someone is to change our inner reality. It's not actually about them, right? Because you are creating everything from the inside out. Everyone is you pushed out. I just recorded a post about that—I'll post it up there if you want to watch it afterwards. Everyone is you pushed out, which means everyone out there is acting in a way that is in alignment with your expectations.

So if someone is ignoring us, or if we repeat patterns of feeling ignored, feeling dropped, feeling abandoned, all these things, it means that we are living with some sort of expectation that this is how it's going to go in relationships. So the only thing for you to do to change this pattern in your life is to change what you expect within.

There are two ways that I like to do this. The first way is self-love. Self-love is incredibly important and incredibly potent in terms of changing your relationships. And here's why: when you learn to show up and treat yourself essentially the way you want other people to treat you, you automatically develop an expectation that other people are going to treat you that way too. You also develop higher standards, where you're like, "I will only be treated this particular way. I will only be treated with total respect and with attention and consistency." I talk about this, about raising your standards, in this post up here about self-love. So if you want to watch it afterwards, you can.

But self-love is huge when it comes to changing not only your experience in life but your experience with others. Because when you learn to show up and treat yourself the way you want other people to treat you, you automatically start expecting other people to do so as well.

So in terms of specifically being ignored by someone, the best thing for you to do is to go into a practice of inner child work. And this is a very potent practice. If you notice that you repeat patterns in relationships that are painful—if you continue to create scenarios where you're ignored, dropped, abandoned, not loved, you don't feel worthy, all of these things—to me, that's an indication that there's a deeper wound that could use your attention and love. And I call that the inner child. It's learning to be with the part of you that expects to be ignored and essentially teaching her (him or her, the inner child) that you're going to be there for them and they're not going to be ignored by you.

Now, this may sound simple, or maybe it sounds profound, but it actually is incredible, the amount of transformation that can come from you starting to show up for yourself in these hurt spaces. You know, I talk to obviously a lot of people—I have many clients and also a lot of you reading my posts—and the amount of people that have told me that inner child work has literally changed their lives is huge. People consistently tell me that self-love and inner child work really changes their lives. So I'm going to link my inner child playlist—if you want to dive deeper into this practice, have a look at that playlist to learn exactly how to show up for your inner child. But essentially, what you're going to be doing is, when you start to feel it triggered that you've been ignored, or dropped, or abandoned, you want to go within, hold your heart, hold your body, close your eyes, and start talking to this part of you that feels ignored and abandoned. And start telling him or her that you are here for them, that you're not going to leave them, that you are here to stay, and you know they are hurt, and you know this doesn't feel good, but you are here, and you're never going to leave them.

When you start doing a practice like this, it's very deep, it's very healing, and I promise you, if you stick with a practice like this, what's going to happen is eventually you're no longer going to be triggered by outside things happening, because you can really hold yourself. And when you can really hold yourself, you start to not expect to be dropped anymore, to be ignored, all of these things. So inner child work and showing up for that wounded part of you and telling that part that you are here, you are not going to leave them, is step one.

Notice that this has nothing to do with the other person who's ignoring you. Self-love typically doesn't have anything to do with the person, and it's still vitally important to change the pattern with this person. Because again, when you change your expectations about what you're going to receive by showing up for yourself, you have to change the outer reality. You don't even have to do step two, but we are going to do step two to make it extra potent. So let me dive into what step two is.

Step two is you have to create a new expectation of what this person is doing with you in your reality. Now, many people's impulse is to go into an old manifesting technique of affirmations. And I'm not going to say you shouldn't do that. If you like affirmations, please do them. However, I think it's really potent to take it a step deeper. And what does that mean? It means imagining an entirely new scenario of what this person is doing with you.

So maybe it's not just that they're giving you attention; maybe you're imagining that they're even pursuing you now. Maybe they're moving towards you now. You don't even have to take it that far, but you have to start changing your expectation and your imagination of what this person is doing with you. So in your inner world, instead of imagining, or expecting, or feeling ignored by them, you start to imagine and expect and feel that they're actually moving towards you, that they're giving you attention, that they're there with you, that they're loving you, that they want to be close to you.

And this may take a little bit of practice because if you've been really used to being ignored by them, you're probably very used to imagining and expecting that they're going to ignore you. But the practice of manifesting is consistently stepping into the new reality that you want to create, consistently stepping into the new reality that you want to create, okay?

So the two steps are: one, going into a practice of self-love, inner child work, and you can learn more about how to do that on my channel; two, stepping into a new reality, a new expectation of what this person is doing with you.

If you do these two steps, especially for something like being ignored, where you have to change the wound of feeling abandoned, or rejected, or dropped, or ignored—this is like a wound in you—if you start showing up for yourself in that wound space, start loving yourself, start telling yourself you're not going to leave yourself, then what happens is you start to change your expectations of what this person's doing with you. They have to start showing up in a new way with you. It may take a little bit of time—just be patient with the process. But when you start really loving yourself in this way, I promise you, you will start seeing different results.

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