Don't Blame Me, If They Get CRAZY About You After THIS!

Whenever you feel compelled to put others first at the expense of yourself, you are denying your own reality and identity. This quote by David Stafford always resonates with me because it highlights the impact that how I treat myself has on my life and how I experience reality. Sacrificing yourself for others, denying your own wants and needs, and putting people on a pedestal can be very costly. It drains your energy, self-respect, fulfillment, and satisfaction. By doing this, you teach the world and tell the universe that you are not important, that what you want and who you are is not a priority. This, in turn, will reflect in your relationships.

If you are struggling in a relationship right now, ask yourself if the work has begun with you or if you are just hoping for that person to change. If you think that the reason you don’t have what you want is because the other person needs to change, and you just need to say the right affirmations to make it happen, you might be mistaken. This mindset could be why you aren’t seeing the results you desire. They are treating you that way as a reflection of what is going on within you.

To take your power back means to honor yourself, to prioritize yourself, and to choose yourself. You need to be there for yourself so that you can be there for others. Share from a full cup, not an empty one. Always choose yourself first and recognize what you are bringing to the table. Know the importance of your "I am" and the uniqueness in that. That’s what we are discussing today. But before we get into it, hello everyone! If you’re new here, welcome to my space. If you need coaching resources or self-taught courses, please check below, you will find all links there! But right now, let’s dive into today’s topic.

One of the biggest detachment lessons in life is how to be in your own frame, in your own energy. This lesson is about detachment from outcomes, expectations, old stories, past experiences, and what others say, do, or think. It involves lowering the importance you give to the external noise and everything happening around you that makes you feel at its mercy. When you find confidence in who you are and your own inner self-image, that confidence radiates outward, making you extremely magnetic to those around you and to everything you desire in life.

Often, we allow our external reality and circumstances to reinforce our insecurities, fears, doubts, and worries. However, unless we resolve these issues within ourselves, we won’t solve them externally. Finding and recognizing your value and importance is crucial. If you always seek validation from outside yourself, you will find that it’s elusive because your worth is conditional upon your internal state.

Consider this if you are manifesting a specific person or any other desire: Have you ever felt that you would do anything to have that desire fulfilled or to be with that person? You might wonder what more you can do to manifest your desire, if you’re doing something wrong, or if something is missing. These thoughts reflect a belief that you must earn your manifestation, that it’s conditional. This mindset can enslave you to your desire, making it your god. To avoid this trap, you need to understand what your desire represents.

Your desire is about you. It provides clues about what’s not working in your self-concept and inner world. It shows you that the state you are currently in isn’t aligned with the experience you seek. Therefore, the change should come from within. You need to adjust how you feel about yourself and your circumstances. A simple method is to ask yourself how you would feel if you were already living the life you desire. How would you think about your specific person, yourself, and your life? Compare this to how you feel today to identify why your desire is not yet fulfilled. The state you inhabit must align with your desires.

To embody the change, become that version of yourself. See life from that perspective and do not use the absence of your desire as an excuse for not feeling that way now. Everything you need is within you. Align your mind to feel satisfied, fulfilled, and happy. Be grateful for what you have instead of focusing on what you lack. Avoid finding excuses related to the 3D world, money, or the absence of your desired person. Conditioning your desire in this way prevents you from experiencing it.

It’s crucial that when you work on your self-concept, you do it for yourself, not merely to obtain something. Many people focus on what they can do to get something, but your self-concept is a means to an end. The focus should be on the process of loving and choosing yourself, prioritizing yourself, and changing limiting beliefs that no longer serve you. This is an opportunity to address and transform these limiting beliefs. Whatever you do, do it because you want to feel differently about yourself and your life because you know you deserve more and can achieve more.

Being in your own frame helps you overcome 3D circumstances easily. For instance, you will understand that no one on Earth can truly reject you. Rejection is simply a story you accept when you believe you are not good enough. When you have confidence in who you are, you know that any negative action from others is a mistake they will regret. You don’t need to be desperate, stressed, or try to control or manipulate the 3D. Instead, recognize that you are the best thing they could have, and they will eventually realize it.

Your confidence should not depend on how others feel about you or what they think. It should be rooted in who you are. Your self-concept creates an environment where people react in certain ways towards you. Therefore, your confidence should come from within. When your mind tries to focus on external factors, redirect it to yourself. Affirm that you are unforgettable, amazing, and that people get crazy about you. Your focus should be on your internal self-concept, not on external validation.

When you are grounded in your own energy, you are not affected by what others say or do. Your confidence is rooted in who you are and not dependent on external factors. People’s opinions and actions are temporary snapshots and do not change your intrinsic value. As people’s perceptions evolve, they will come to see your value and importance. You remain grounded in your frame, understanding that your self-concept shapes your reality. The only lasting change comes from within, and your internal state will reflect in your external experiences.

People are going to get addicted to your energy, to having you in their lives. They will want to be there for you, see your value, and feel the pull towards you. This is all about you—your confidence, your energy. You haven’t manipulated or forced anything to happen. The change comes from your self-concept and understanding what is not suiting you anymore. This includes the ideas you have about yourself, the world, and others. The change will come from your confidence, your energy, and you knowing that you are the one and only, unforgettable, amazing, and full of value.

That’s it from me, guys. Thank you so much for being here. I hope you enjoyed the post, and we’ll talk soon. Bye-bye!

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