How to STOP OBSESSING over someone

Hello, beautiful souls! Let’s dive into today’s topic: How to STOP OBSESSING over someone. We’ve all been there, right? It feels like your thoughts are constantly circling around this one person, and it’s exhausting. But the good news is, you can break free from this obsession, and today, I’m going to show you how.

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So, the first thing you need to understand is that obsession is usually a sign of anxious attachment. What does that mean? It means that deep down, you’re tying your happiness and self-worth to this person’s actions or approval. This often comes from a place of insecurity or fear of rejection. But here’s the thing—you are not dependent on anyone else for your happiness. You are a whole, complete person all on your own.

I know, easier said than done, right? But here’s the truth: the more you focus on them, the more power you’re giving away. It’s time to take that power back. Start by recognizing that this obsession is more about you than it is about them. What is it that you think they’re giving you? Is it validation? Security? Love? Whatever it is, you need to start giving that to yourself.

When you’re obsessing over someone, it’s easy to put them on a pedestal. You think they’re perfect, and you convince yourself that you need them in your life. But guess what? They’re not perfect. No one is. And you don’t need them to be happy or fulfilled. So, take them off that pedestal and start seeing them for who they really are—a regular person, just like you.

This one is crucial. If you want to stop obsessing, you have to create some distance. Stop checking their social media, stop looking at old photos, and stop replaying conversations in your head. The more you expose yourself to reminders of them, the harder it’s going to be to move on. So, cut the cord. Give yourself the space you need to heal and refocus.

Here’s where the magic happens. Instead of pouring all your energy into thinking about them, start investing that energy back into yourself. What makes you happy? What are you passionate about? Now is the time to dive into those things. Whether it’s learning a new skill, picking up a hobby, or working on your personal growth, shifting your focus to your own life will help you break free from the obsession.

Detachment doesn’t mean you stop caring—it means you stop clinging. When you’re obsessing, you’re clinging to the idea that things need to go a certain way or that this person needs to feel a certain way about you. But life doesn’t work like that. Let go of the need for control. Trust that whatever is meant to be will be, and that you will be okay no matter what.

Finally, don’t do this alone. Surround yourself with friends, family, or a supportive community that lifts you up. Having people around who care about you and remind you of your worth is so important when you’re trying to let go of an obsession.

Remember, breaking free from obsession is a process. It’s not going to happen overnight, and that’s okay. Be patient with yourself. You are strong, capable, and worthy of love—just as you are. The moment you start focusing on yourself and your own happiness, you’ll find that the obsession starts to fade away.

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