When The 3D Shows The Opposite + Affirmation Trick To Stay In The State Of The Wish Fulfilled

Today we're going to talk about why it's so important to persist in your new story, so let's get into it.

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Today, we're talking about persisting in your new story and your new assumptions. I’ve got a story of my own, and I thought it would show you guys that sometimes the 3D is showing you the complete opposite, but it doesn't mean anything. Most people freak out when they don’t get what they want the way they want—that's what attachment to an outcome means, okay?

I’m going to share my story, talk a little about what happened inside of me, and then give you a few tips on how to affirm.

The Story

The story I’m sharing with you happened years ago. I was still in college, and I had a boyfriend. We had been broken up for about two to three weeks. It was summer break, and we hadn’t been in contact. During that time, I wasn’t affirming; nothing was happening. Suddenly, my friends were like, “ we’re going to put a party together—a bonfire party. Let’s have some fun, but he’s coming.”

In my mind, I was like, “It’s fine. I’m there for the fun. I just want to see my friends, have a good time, and enjoy summer. I don’t care what happens—if something happens or if nothing happens—I’m just there for my friends.” With that thought, I went to the party with no expectations whatsoever, no attachment to an outcome.

Let me tell you, it was very challenging because during the entire time we were there with our friends, I was focusing on them, but I could hear him trying to get a reaction out of me. He was saying things that would normally cause me to react—talking about other girls and what he’d been doing. But the whole time, inside, I was saying to myself, “He loves me. He wants to be with me.” I kept repeating inside of me what I wanted to achieve.

Later that evening, I decided to go home. I said my goodbyes to everyone and headed to my car. And guess what? I hear him saying, “Hey, stranger, I’m coming with you.” I was like, “Uh, okay.” So we were walking, and it was weird because neither of us said anything. In my mind, though, I was doing my affirmations, right?

As we walked, I got to my car and said, “Okay, thanks so much, enjoy the rest of your evening. Have a nice weekend. See you when classes start again.” As I opened my door, he pulled me in and kissed me. I was completely shocked because I wasn’t expecting that. Then he said, “I really miss you,” and I was like, “Okay...” He told me he wanted to talk and that he’d get in touch with me, but for now, “Go do your thing. We’ll put a pin in it and talk later.”

We both laughed, and you know what happened two days later? One of my friends called and told me that after I left, some girl came to the party and was talking to him, touching him, and they seemed very familiar with each other. Mind you, he hadn’t called or texted me at all.

So I listened and thought, “You know what? I don’t want to know. He’s free to do whatever he wants.” In my mind, I said, “It doesn’t mean anything. He loves me. He cares about me. He wants only me.” I kept doing my affirmations and persisted in that, even though it was difficult to stay true to what I wanted.

Until classes started again, he never contacted me. That was about two weeks. So the story I had projected in the 3D was that he was with that girl—very familiar with her. But I never let it affect me. I kept repeating my own story.

When classes finally started, the first day after a class we had together, he pulled me to the side and said, “I want you to know that I want to be with you. Someone might have told you I was with someone else, but let me tell you—after I kissed you that night, I told her we’re not seeing each other anymore. I’m going to be the best man you deserve because I want to be that for you. I love you.”

Everything I had affirmed for and everything I wanted to change had changed. But besides the kiss, the 3D was showing me that he had moved on. Sometimes, that’s what’s happening out there. You have to persist in what you want. You have to decide what reality you want to live in and see projected out there. When you’re certain about what you want, the world has no choice but to conform to it.

The Affirmation Trick

First, you have to put aside all those limiting beliefs that you have. Sometimes, it's reflected out there, but when it comes to affirmations, I’ve already talked about how to make a subconscious mind tape, and that's great. But when it comes to affirming, what I do is choose about four or five affirmations—no more. It’s easier to loop them and make them feel natural because what's going to make it your reality is how comfortable and natural it is for you.

When you start saying these affirmations, and it requires no effort to remember, say, or focus on them, that’s when you know it’s going to manifest. It feels natural and familiar. So when you have your four or five affirmations, imagine you're telling a story to a friend or someone you trust. This is your story.

You’re not just affirming, “I am in a happy and loving relationship with my specific person.” Instead, say, “Oh my god! I’m so excited to tell you that I’m in a committed relationship with my specific person. We are so happy! He’s told me I’m everything he thinks about, I’m his number one obsession. He’s completely different now—he’s putting me on a pedestal, chasing me, pursuing me, he’s crazy about me.”

Imagine you’re telling this to someone you trust. You’ll feel the excitement of the reality you’re creating inside of you. It’s your new story, and you’re finally sharing it with someone you trust. This isn’t the only way I affirm, but it’s definitely the way I affirm when I’m struggling to stay in the state of the wish fulfilled because it really gives me life. When I do this a couple of times, it’s hard to get out of that mindset.

Every time I think about my desire, I go straight to that story. I go straight to telling my best friend about it. If you haven’t tried it, do this and let me know how it goes.

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