Make Them Regret What They Did And Chase You Again!

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But right now, let's get into today's topic. Let's say you have a story with someone, and you want to change that dynamic. You want them to realize that the way that they have been treating you is not okay, that they have to work on themselves, that they have to level up. Everything starts with them thinking about this situation and having high emotions, high feelings about you—missing you, realizing your value, realizing what they are missing if they let you go.

Right, so in this situation, it is about you claiming that reality. You accept that it's possible for them to act that way, to feel that way, to change their mind, but also to realize that you are the person who can create that effect on people. Even if they don't see your value at first, they end up realizing it because not having you in their lives means for them to miss on something, to lose something that is important, that is precious.

So, as I said, all of this means that you, as the manifestor, have to claim that reality. And you are not claiming that reality by chasing them, thinking about them all day long, waiting for a text, for a call, going on social media, stalking them, trying to figure out what is happening on the other side. Part of the work that we do is self-analysis. So, I want you to take a look at how you are feeling and the things that you are doing throughout the day. Maybe you are looking for information online, maybe you are waiting for them to text, looking at your phone every 5 minutes. You're putting your life on hold, or you are feeling anxious, you're feeling heavy when you think about them.

So, if this is you, start asking yourself questions. Why am I feeling this way? Why am I acting this way? What are the stories that are driving me to feel this way or to act that way? Are my actions aligned with my assumptions that I am in a happy relationship with that person? That I am respected, that I am loved, that I am chosen, I am chased by that person? And in most cases, you are going to see that not everything that you are doing is aligned with what you want, and then you have to correct it. Because in this way, by doing those things, you're not claiming the reality that you want—you are in opposition to it.

The most important word here is being—I am. It's about the assumption. So, if you're going online, looking at their feeds, and you're like, "Oh, I'm doing all the things, all the right things," and then when I go online, I see that they are living their best life, they are partying, they are seeing other people. This sucks! Yeah, of course, it does—it doesn't feel good to see those things. But if you're honest with yourself, you may be doing the right things, but you are still not being the fulfillment of your desire because you are still feeling the need to go online and figure out what is happening. Is it already working?

If you're thinking that way, you still have that lack within, and what you are seeing is a match to the lack that you are holding on to. The reflection won't just change because you want it to change or you desire it to happen. It will change because you are choosing to be the person who is claiming that reality as yours. And in the beginning, it's going to be wobbly, it's going to be inconsistent, and you are going to have doubts. It's a normal thing, but every day you are choosing to be the version of you that you desire to be, and every day you are getting a step closer to being that version of you.

You do that by working on your self-concept—the idea of who you are and the impact that you cause in the world. Take a look at the assumptions that you have about yourself and them, and be brutally honest with yourself. Are these assumptions aligned with the person that I want to be and the version of them that I want to experience? Because manifestation is not about suppressing old emotions and old stories, it's about working through them so that you can change—you can change how you see yourself and how you see them, genuinely.

You have to ask yourself: Is what I am assuming of this person—how I'm holding on to them in my inner world—and myself as well, aligned with the kind of life that I want to live, the relationship that I want to have with them? Or are those assumptions coming from the old stories, the old experiences that we had? If you have those negative stories still there, ask yourself why you are holding on to them. Because probably, you still have past hurts that you have been trying to suppress and not working through them. And you have to. You can't just say, "I desire to be with that person, but they are terrible to me." If you do that, you are going to manifest a reality where you keep getting that terrible version of them because you don't want to let go of the ideas that you have about them, what they are able to do, and how they hurt you. It's about processing everything for yourself so that you can be a better version of yourself, and they can be a better version of themselves too.

Sometimes we think it's easier to just move on and go for a new person, and it is, because you don't have any negative assumptions about them. But if you do not work on your self-concept, chances are that you are going to recreate that relationship. You are going to start experiencing patterns, and this happens because your self-concept is still the same. If you have a pattern, then think about this: with this person, I experienced that, and now I have another person, and I'm starting to experience the same thing. Two different people, same experience. What is the common denominator? It's your self-concept.

So, do not run away from challenges. If you love the person, you can recreate that relationship—you do not have to move on and find someone new. Of course, if you do not love them, why are you here, right? Why are you manifesting that person? Focus on a new person that you are completely in love with, and they are completely in love with you, because manifestation is not a jail—you don't owe anyone anything. It's about your desire, what you want. But if you're dealing with someone that you have history with, then you do need to work on what is happening in your inner world—how you are perceiving them, the stories that you are holding against them, and against yourself.

It is less about what is happening right now, what you are experiencing in the 3D, or what you have experienced in the past, and it's more about the potential that you see for this relationship. Because you can change. You can change your ways, the way that you think, the way that you act. You can change your assumptions about yourself, your life—you can level up. But the question is: Can you assume that for that person too? Can you see them processing their feelings, their emotions, their thoughts? Can you feel like they can work on themselves to become the person that you want them to be? Do you see the potential in them?

I want you guys to think about this every time that you think or feel like they will never change, they will never stop lying, they will never stop cheating, they will never regret losing me, they have moved on, their minds are somewhere else. If you're seeing that person that way, what you are actually saying is: they will not change for me. I am not worthy of them changing, stopping doing this stuff, leveling up. I'm not worthy of them coming back and wanting to work for it, fighting for it.

And this is a self-concept issue. It's how you are perceiving yourself. It's what you are expecting for yourself. You cannot see that someone could be there thinking, "Oh my God, I made a huge mistake, I will never find someone like that person, they are unique, they offer me so much, they give me so much love, and I want to be there with them, I want to feel that energy, I want to feel that love, I want to give that love, I want to become a better man, a better woman for that person."

Everyone will change when they find the person they feel they cannot afford losing. So, the question is always, why are you feeling or thinking that you are not that person? That you are someone people can just discard and move on and live a life without having a second thought? And all of this is about your self-concept. That's why I say it's about you raising your value, realizing who you are, because when you start thinking differently about who you are, automatically you will think, "Okay, I am a good person, I am a good girlfriend, boyfriend, I'm a good wife, good husband, and they are not seeing that. Why are they not seeing that?"

If this is the case, then they are not meant for you. You start assuming differently about yourself, and you start expecting more for yourself. And then you also start seeing the potential for them to change because they do not want to miss you. They do not want to lose you. So, that's the post for today. I hope this has been helpful to you guys.

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