You Don’t Need to Be Fixed—You Just Need to Remember Who You Truly Are
Let me ask you something—have you ever felt broken? Like no matter how hard you try, something just isn’t clicking? Maybe you’ve told yourself, “I need to change,” or “I need to fix myself before I can be happy.” If so, I get it. I’ve been there too.
But here’s the truth that no one tells you: You don’t need to be fixed. There is nothing wrong with you. You’ve just forgotten who you really are.
Why Do We Feel Like We’re Not Enough?
From the moment we are born, we start picking up beliefs about ourselves from the world around us—our parents, teachers, friends, society. And over time, those beliefs start shaping our identity.
Maybe you were told you had to be “good” to be loved. Maybe you learned that success means sacrificing yourself. Maybe someone made you feel like you weren’t worthy unless you fit a certain mold.
So, you built a version of yourself based on what you thought the world wanted. You became someone who people-pleased, hustled for validation, or hid parts of yourself that felt "too much."
But here’s the thing—you were never broken. You just lost connection with your truest, most powerful self.
The Real Struggle: Consistency & Self-Sabotage
You might say, “Okay, but I do struggle to be consistent. I set goals and then give up. I start routines and then fall off track. How do I fix that?”
I hear you. And I want you to know—it’s not because you’re lazy, undisciplined, or incapable. The real reason most people struggle with consistency is because they are trying to force themselves to be someone they’re not.
Think about it: If you’re trying to follow a path that doesn’t align with who you really are, of course, it’s going to feel like a battle. Of course, you’ll lose motivation.
The Simple Fix: Stop Chasing—Start Remembering
Instead of trying to change yourself, try to remember yourself.
Ask yourself:
- What did I love as a child before the world told me who to be?
- When do I feel the most alive, free, and at peace?
- What parts of myself have I suppressed to fit in?
Start reconnecting with those answers. That is the version of you that doesn’t need fixing—only uncovering.
The Powerful Mindset Shift: Act As If You Already Are That Person
Most people think they need motivation to take action, but in reality, action creates motivation.
Instead of waiting to feel “ready,” just start acting as if you already are that version of yourself.
- Want to be a confident person? Act as if you already are, even if it feels weird at first.
- Want to be consistent? Show up today—not perfectly, just presently.
- Want to feel enough? Stop proving yourself and start embracing yourself.
The Key Takeaway
You are not broken. You don’t need to be fixed. You simply need to strip away the layers of conditioning that made you forget your own power.
Once you remember who you are, consistency won’t feel like an uphill battle. Confidence won’t feel like something you have to earn. And life will feel less like something to fix—and more like something to live.
So, are you ready to stop searching and start remembering? If this resonated with you, stick around—I’ve got more powerful shifts to share with you.
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