The BEST Explanation of SELF CONCEPT & How to Change It!

Hello, welcome! I'm so happy you're here. In this post, I'm going to talk about how manifesting is really only about changing your self-concept. My favourite Neville Goddard quote is, "There is no one to change but self." This is true. If we learn how to change just our self-concept, which I'll tell you how to do in this post, you can change your entire reality.

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Okay, let's jump into this. My favourite Neville Goddard quote: "There is no one to change but self." When manifesting, first of all, I'll just say yes, there are a lot of different ways to manifest. As I've said in other posts, I don't claim to do the only way of manifesting. I don't think my way is the only way of manifesting. I do know that my way is very potent and it works. It's worked for me, and it's worked for thousands of people who have worked with me.

So how do I manifest? I manifest by changing my self-concept. The only thing I do is change my self-concept. So what does this mean? Self-concept is essentially who you think and feel and believe you are. Mostly, it's who you believe you are. You can also call it your identity. That's a way to think about it. It's still a little heady, but your identity: Who do you believe you are? Do you believe you're someone who's in an incredible relationship? Now, when I say believe, I don't mean that you have to delusionally think that this is who you are. It's more that you're developing an inner story about yourself that says, "Yes, this is really true about me."

It's true about me that, of course, I'm in or will be in an amazing relationship. It's true about me that, of course, I am incredibly beautiful, attractive, magnetic. Yes, of course, it's true about me that I'm incredibly abundant and can buy anything I want, can have anything I want. Yes, it's true about me that I'm worthy and magnificent and amazing and incredible. Yes, these things are true about me. This is your self-concept. Your self-concept is essentially your dominant "I am" statements—your dominant who you think you are.

We are constantly thinking about who we are, and we're constantly subtly feeling who we are. What I mean is you walk around in your life feeling like you're a particular person. For myself, when I'm really on top of my game for my self-concept, I walk around in my life feeling like I'm in an amazing relationship. Yes, that has to do with another person, but it mostly has to do with me. I feel partnered. I feel loved. I feel taken care of. I walk around in the world feeling incredibly abundant. I walk around in the world feeling like I help people for a living. I walk around in the world knowing that life is going to continue to offer me beautiful things every single day, big and small things—people smiling at me, beautiful, I'll live in beautiful places. These are all part of my self-concept for different subjects of my life. It's like I believe that I am a particular person that lives a particular life, and what I most dominantly believe about myself is what continues to manifest my reality for me.

We all have this. We all have belief systems about who we think we are. When you start changing your thoughts and the way you feel about who you are in certain categories of your life—so who you think and feel you are in the category of relationship—do you predominantly think and feel that you are alone, not wanted, lonely? Or are you doing the inner work to predominantly think that, "Of course I'm chosen, of course I'm wanted, of course I'm adored, of course I'm loved." These are two different self-concepts, and they're going to create what is going to happen in your 3D reality depending on which of those self-concepts is most dominant. Same thing for every category of your life.

All you are doing is shifting who you think and feel you are in every category of life. So this is different than manifesting in the sense of you just visualize one scene and that's all you have to do. I'm not saying you can't manifest that way, but that's not really how I manifest. It's also different than just saying affirmations. To me, affirmations can be a little bit surface level. This style of manifesting by simply changing your self-concept is changing what you predominantly feel about yourself in terms of the subject of what you're manifesting.

There's probably like five main subjects in life. I mean, we can add on to that, but let's say there's relationship, there's money, there's family, there's friendship, there's lifestyle. These are some big categories of life. So who are you in terms of relationship? You have to start telling a new story about who you are that's going to make you feel like a new person. And as you step into being that new person, you're going to start to get a new outer reality.

This is all we're doing. The only reason we focus on something outside of us—so let's say you're manifesting an experience with a specific person—the only reason you're going to focus on this specific person is so it makes you feel different. So in any technique, let's say you're manifesting contact from a specific person, the only reason you would be thinking about them texting you, imagining them texting you, feeling them texting you, the only reason you're doing that is so that you can feel the experience of it: "I'm being texted. I'm being contacted." Who would you be if you were someone who was always contacted? Who would you be if you were someone who was always chosen? You have to develop that inner self-concept. That's all you have to do, and the rest is going to come to you.

The best way to manifest is to decide what you want to have happen in your reality. Do you want to be in a relationship? Do you want to have a certain amount of money? Do you want to have particular friendships? Do you want to go on vacations to particular places? What do you want in these different categories of your life? List out how you would feel. What would you be thinking? Who would you be if this was already happening to you? And you take on that self-concept. You start to feel like a new person. You start thinking the thoughts of a new person. You start knowing that these desires are already yours. It is already done. It is already who you are. And when you have landed in that inner space that it is already who you are, it has to manifest in your reality. This is how it works. This is the most potent way to manifest.

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