Why You Keep Attracting Emotionally Unavailable People

You’re not crazy. You’re not broken.

But you are stuck in a pattern — one that hurts like hell.
And no one’s ever told you the real reason why.

You keep attracting emotionally unavailable people because a part of you learned to feel safe in the absence of emotional safety.
Read that again.

You confuse emotional distance with mystery, inconsistency with chemistry, and avoidance with challenge.

Not because you’re weak — but because somewhere along the way, love started to feel like working for crumbs.

So now, when someone gives you just enough to stay but not enough to feel secure… it feels familiar.
It feels like home.
But that’s not love. That’s your nervous system repeating what it knows.

And the worst part?
The available ones feel “boring.”
The healthy ones feel “too much.”
And the ones who truly show up for you?
You question if you even deserve them.

But here's the truth:
You don’t attract what you want. You attract what you’re prepared for emotionally.

You’ve been emotionally starving and calling it “independence.”
You’ve been settling for fragments and calling it “love.”
You’ve been chasing people who can’t give you what you need… because deep down, a part of you learned to abandon yourself first.

That ends now.

Because the pattern isn’t a punishment — it’s a mirror.
It’s showing you where healing needs to happen.
It’s asking you to come back to yourself.
To rewire your relationship with love, safety, and worth.

You’re not here to beg to be chosen.
You’re here to choose you.
And when you do — the unavailable won’t feel magnetic anymore.
Because you’ll stop confusing the absence of love with the feeling of love.

This is your wake-up call.
And if your heart is pounding right now, it’s not just because this hit — it’s because you know it’s time.
Time to break the cycle. Time to heal the root.
Time to remember who the hell you are.

I see you. I get it. I’ve been there.
And I can help you get out.

This isn’t just another feel-good post.
This is your permission slip to finally choose peace over patterns.

Let’s rewrite your love story — starting with the one you have with yourself. 

Love & Light 

Awakened Soul

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