How Do Other People FEEL ABOUT ME? (This Changes Everything)

People don’t respond to you based on who you are.

They respond to you based on what you believe they think and feel about you.

This may sound confronting at first, but it’s also deeply liberating. Because it means you are not at the mercy of other people’s opinions. You are at the center of the experience.

Every interaction you have is filtered through your assumptions. Whether you believe you are liked, respected, ignored, or misunderstood, those beliefs quietly shape how the world reflects back to you.

The Power of Subconscious Beliefs

Most people try to change their reality at the surface level. They repeat affirmations. They attempt to think positively. They hope for better outcomes. But the subconscious mind is always in control.

You may consciously tell yourself, “People like me,” while carrying a deeper belief that says, “I’m afraid they don’t.” And the subconscious belief will always be the one that manifests.

Why? Because your mind is constantly searching for evidence to support what it already believes to be true.

A tone of voice feels off. A message goes unanswered. Someone looks distracted. And suddenly your belief feels confirmed. Not because it was accurate, but because your perception filtered reality to match it.

And this creates a loop.

You believe something.
You interpret experiences through that belief.
Those interpretations reinforce the belief.
And the cycle continues.

You’re Not Seeing Reality — You’re Interpreting It

What most people call reality is actually interpretation.

Two people can experience the same interaction and walk away with completely different conclusions. One feels rejected. The other feels neutral. The difference isn’t the situation. It’s the assumption they brought into it.

Your inner conversation is always leading the way.

When you assume people don’t like you, your energy subtly shifts. Your body language changes. Your tone changes. Your expectations change. And people respond to that shift without realizing why.

Not because they are against you.
But because they are reflecting you.

The Breakthrough: Change the Assumption

The moment you change the inner story, the outer experience has no choice but to follow.

When you assume people respect you, interactions soften.
When you assume people enjoy being around you, connections open.
When you assume you are valued, you are treated accordingly.

This isn’t about forcing belief or pretending. It’s about gently choosing a new assumption and allowing it to settle in.

You don’t need to convince anyone.
You don’t need to control outcomes.
You only need to change the meaning you assign internally.

People are mirrors of your dominant beliefs.

Always.

You Are Not Reacting — You Are Creating

This is where real empowerment begins.

You are not reacting to life as it happens to you. You are participating in its creation through your assumptions, your beliefs, and your inner dialogue.

When you start observing your thoughts instead of being run by them, you’ll see the direct connection between what happens within you and what shows up around you.

Change the belief.
Change the inner conversation.
And the world reorganizes to match it.

Not someday.
Not magically.
But naturally.

Because reality is always listening.

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